(Quick disclaimer: This blog post is not aimed at depression or any other mental health issue. Telling someone with depression to just cheer up is not going to help in the least; this post is aimed at people’s attitudes in society.)
It’s always very difficult to tell whether the world is changing or whether your perception of it is, but I’m almost 70% certain that the darkening of all the human minds across the world is happening in the world and not inside my head.
For goodness sake, we’re facing the death of happiness if we don’t start to change. And trust me, I’m all too aware of your immediate response, if you’re opposing. There’s plenty to be upset about. There are buckets worth of worldwide events going on that prove that life is not a cheerful occupation, that planet Earth is not the most cheerful place to inhabit. And yes, I agree with you to a point, because people out there are being treated dismally and there are a plethora of corrupt politicians running the world. There’s famine and disease and poverty and abuse and corruption and ignorance and so much more that I could brighten your brain with, and it is absolutely vital that we do not turn a blind eye to these issues.
But I feel the need to make this plea. There’s no point in watching the news, as everyone says, because it’s full of miserable stuff. And do you know why it’s full of miserable stuff? It’s because the audience – that’s us – laps it up. Our sense of disillusionment grows by the year, the month, perhaps by the very day, and the more jaded we become the more we look on to re-assert our sense of darkness in the world. Some of us even become the source of darkness in the world, and this adds to the snowball effect more than all else.
The news does not report the happier things because the happier things don’t have this effect. A cynic would argue that these happy things don’t actually happen, but I’m more inclined to believe that it’s because they don’t affect the way we think as much; they don’t change world events or how the country is run. They’re not relatively important enough to be reported. This leads to forced perspective by omission, causing it to seem like nothing good is happening in the world whilst all bad is scaling up, getting worse, becoming perpetually darker.
I’m not just talking about the news, either. People aren’t just jaded, they revel in being so, as if they’re catching the world out by being a pessimist. “Hah, look at me! I’m disgusted by humanity, you can’t fool me, world.” But this just won’t do. Because I’m sure – and I have no evidence so shoot me, but I am sure – that this is most certainly being passed down to the children. And instead of becoming disillusioned when they grow up to think for themselves, they will instead grow up with this mindset. Believe me, when you’re growing up you don’t see the world from any perspective other than the one you’re given. You could even have one parent and not question it until you’re old enough to be told why.
So do me a favour. The next time you’re in a foul mood and you hear somebody else make an optimistic – a foolishly optimistic, to you – remark about the world, don’t trample on their daisies. Don’t drawl on about how love fades after a while or how Christmas is just some capitalist money trap. Do the world a favour and smile and maybe even agree with them. Do yourself a favour and adopt that foolishly optimistic way of thinking.
Even if your heart disagrees.