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World: Tory Leadership Contest feed (I still don’t agree with the idea of a new Tory leader becoming PM by default without a public vote)
Gaming: E3 2019: full games list, schedule and press conference recap (My highlights: Animal Crossing New Horizons, LEGO Star Wars, and Elden Ring)
I’ve been playing: Apex Legends, Assassin’s Creed Odyssey (I am addicted), Various PSVR Titles (more on that below).
My generation have this terrible habit of aging themselves up for the sake of existential dread. I recall myself and countless others un-ironically lamenting the fact that we were old on our 21st birthdays. More commonly, it’s heard from people who are approaching thirty, and while that’s perhaps more understandable it is still, I think, overblown in relation to the ultimate timescale of our lives. But then, we’ll see how I feel about that statement six years from now.
I turned 24 the other day, and for the first few months of this year I was miserable about it. 24 sounds like a solid age for an adult to have their shit together, and I absolutely do not have my shit together. There’s many things I wanted to have done in my life by this point, and with each passing birthday I’ve been feeling more disheartened with the things I haven’t done. And no, this isn’t the blog post where I talk about an epiphany I’ve had which has changed my ability to sort my life out. But if you’ve been following this journal at all, hopefully you’ve had some idea as to the process of my mind these last few months. I’m in a healthier place, I think. I’m giving myself less shit and opening my mind to new ideas. I’m rediscovering my identity as a writer. And most relevant to this post, I no longer resent growing older.
In fact, one of the very triggers which sparked this renewed approach to life was a tweet, which I’ve since lost. It said something along the lines of the importance of embracing aging, as not everyone gets that choice. And that’s not a philosophy which is new to me; I had an English teacher who told us that he looked forward to greying, that he couldn’t wait to look in the mirror and realise he had crow’s feet. But something about this tweet, maybe the wording, maybe just the fact that I read it at the right time, it resonated with me. It forced me to look at myself and how much I was punishing myself for having wasted my life. It reminded me that I was 23. Not 83. Not 53. 23. And I’d grown so scared of becoming a bitter and resentful old man that I was risking becoming a bitter and resentful young man instead.
I was looking at my life on a scale of year dot to year eighty, and I was maximising the window of opportunity in previous years whilst minimising the entire scale of living in years to come. It sounds absurd, but looking back almost seemed like a further journey than looking forwards. And that is incredibly damaging to the human mind.
In an entirely different topic of conversation, I’ve got myself a VR headset and it’s only ruddy fantastic. I am overjoyed, and I am going to spend much of my week off exploring this new medium of gameplay and other experiences. So far I’ve faced down massive demons in DOOM VFR, begun my training as rhythmic Jedi in Beat Saber, explored my favourite single-player game of all time in Skyrim VR, and more. The future is awesome.